Why Irish politics is nothing more than one big, dysfunctional family

Watching the leaders’ debate reminded me of nothing more than a family fighting over who gets to be in charge of the tv remote, and mud-slinging when they couldn't say what they wanted to say.

Fianna Fáil was seen as the traditional 'head of the house', in charge for countless years until Fine Gael stepped up to the plate. Being the proud breadwinner, Fianna Fáil did not step down easily, and constantly try to undermine Fine Gael's proposals, and nit-pick at their mistakes. Despite Fianna Fáil and Fine Gael having almost the exact same ideas and policies, one will never admit that the other might be doing the right thing.
Fianna Gael insists on being the nagging housewife, always making it known that they are having to clean up the other half's mess. "You put us in this position," is a favourite saying of theirs, as they try to sweep the IMF under the rug.
Labour is like the ageing great-aunt, still attending every event but has diminished severely in the past five years.
Sinn Féin comes in as the stroppy teenager, demanding independence and wanting to know when it’s their turn to get to do things. They argue that their friends in the north get to do things and that it hasn't led to any trouble so far. However the family are not prepared to forgive Sinn Fein's wild, rebellious years in the past just yet.
Renua, the Social Democrats and the Anti-Austerity Alliance are young and like the children of the family. Who of course, are never listened to.

Our next government should focus on mental health

Politicians want to know one thing in the run-up to elections: what are the main issues affecting the people, but what issue effects absolutely every member of the population? 

With one in four people in Ireland being diagnosed with a mental health illness at some point in their lives, mental health issues will affect everyone in our country. Whether it be directly or through a family member, friend, or relative, we will all ultimately be affected by a mental health condition.

If our government wants to see any real change in this small island nation of ours, we have to start changing our attitudes and approaches to mental health issues. 

According to the National Suicide Research Foundation, 554 people committed suicide last year alone. This death rate is higher than the death rate for road accidents, lung cancer and house fires combined.

We need our politicians to give us a glimpse of hope. We need to show our young people that there is more to life than finding the answer down the bottom of a bottle or in the bottom of a river. 

It is all too easy to push mental health illnesses aside and insist that the individual deal with it themselves.

Imagine if we did the same for people suffering with lung problems or in need of a kidney transplant. Telling visibly ill people that, ‘we simply do not have the services to deal with this now’ or that ‘there are things you can do to help yourself, you know…’ 

Mental health issues are like any other issue-they will not go away unless we try to solve it. We need to introduce compulsory mental health talks in schools and state funded check-ups by GPs on our mental well-being every year. 

Thousands of people in Ireland alone are suffering and how can our politicians expect us to be a strong and stable nation when its people are not?

I am just one voice urging our next government-whoever it may be-whenever it sits down to discuss possible budget cuts and to lower social spending, to consider the effects it will have on its people.

There are thousands of voices silently wishing the same thing. For themselves or for someone they love. It is only when these wishes are granted, and when these illnesses are acknowledged, that we will begin to see real change. 

New Years Resolutions

Okay, so this isn't the most original topic but I feel if I post these online people will know if I have or haven't been completing them and I will be ultimately shamed into doing them. :)

Number 1: Study more
Study more. Study harder. Study more efficiently. You get the general gist of it; I need to study. My QCA for last year was 3.4 so I'm looking to maintain that or do better than it. Semester one was fun but now it's time to get down to it. *Sigh*

Number 2: Spend less money on material possessions, more on experiences.
Travelling has always been big on my to-do list and to do this I need to spend less time and money on material possessions and save to spend on experiences. Nights out and spending on clothes and make-up will ultimately take a hit but it will all be worth it!

Number 3: Expand my journalistic horizons
It's usually everyone's New Years Resolution to apply themselves more to their career but in this case it is badly needed. I hope to do videos in the future but this has proven difficult as a) I don't have a high-quality recording camera and b) High-quality recording cameras are expensive. I also want to write more articles and get more stuff published so it's really up to myself here.

Number 4: Focus on my friends
It's fair to say that my friends are some of the best there is so for this year I'm going to give back to them. You'd be surprised at what good a girly catch-up and a bit of treating yourselves will do!

Interview with a Syrian mother

Rula Al-Aken is a Syrian native and mum-of-two living in Limerick. 

Rula moved from Syria to Ireland in 1999.  

She says that Ireland is her home now and she doesn't know if she can ever go back to Syria.

"My country seems so unrecognisable now. It's hard for me to think of going back there and not seeing the same Damascus. It's all gone."

Rula's father passed away in 2013, but as it was during the war, Rula could not travel home for the funeral. 

Rula is urging Irish people to allow Syrians to come here. "People are being raped and murdered. It's not safe in Syria."

She speaks about the conditions that the Syrian people are now facing. "There is only four hours of water a day and two hours of electricity a day. There are no basic things left to survive. People with children have to leave to protect their children. No Syrian person wants to leave Syria but they have to."

Rula also speaks about ISIS. "What ISIS is doing to Syrian people is inhumane. ISIS are not Syrian. It's important that people know what this group is doing to other human beings."

"If Ireland can afford to bring more people into the country I would love that."

"To live away from home is very different from imply visiting a different place. When I settled here I just had to think, 'that's it, this is home now.'" 

Classic case of the fuckboy

Ah, the fuckboy. Much has been documented about the fuckboy in recent years and we are all aware of the warning signs associated with them. But why do we continue to let them in, and even worse, fall for them? Here’s hoping you can learn some truths about not falling for a fuckboy. Warning: the truth can be harsh.

Stop looking for the love of your life in a nightclub:

It’s like looking for a Chanel bag in the middle of Tesco. If you are the type of person that gets easily attached (holding my hand up high here) it’s better not to even GET with someone at the club. You might think “Oh this is fun?” but days later you can’t stop wondering if they’re thinking about you too. God forbid if he actually texts you after it, then you go full creeping mode into his life.

Stop it. The best way to avoid all this is to ignore every last fuckboy at the club. (You will ultimately feel empowered by this and play every Beyonce classic in your head.)

Stop stalking fuckboys online:

Seriously? So you look up his Facebook to find what? Some girl he’s just added and all his dumbwit friends commenting on it? (The girl probably doesn’t even know the chap in the first place, so don’t go putting your hate on her). Shut down that goddamn laptop, even delete him from your friends list. If you want a more subtle approach, you can simply block seeing his fuckboy activities on your homepage. Simples.

Do not hate on the girl the fuckboy is getting with behind your back:

Women are meant to empower each other, and in a world full of fuckwit fuckboys we need to stick together. Don’t go bitching about the girl you heard he got with. Chances are, she doesn’t even know ye have a thing together (what are ye anyways? Texting? Shfiting? Are ye exclusive? Fucking fuckboys.) Get off your high horse and stop insulting her eyebrows. Insult him instead. Or better yet, move on with it with some Ben & Jerrys followed by a girls’ night.

Focus on yo’self:

Stop trying to get his attention. If a lad genuinely likes you, you will earn his attention in other ways than posting up a hot selfie and seeking likes. Educate yourself goddammit. Focus on getting your long awaited driving licence. Further your career. Start helping your parents at home. Make time to catch up with your friends.

The right person will come along eventually, and there’s no point in diving in the pool of fuckboys hoping to seek one out. You will not ‘change’ him, no matter how much you try. So focus on yourself and enjoying life, you’re only young once!

To leave ye feeling in a 'hell yeah!' mood I'll finish off with a quote by Chimamanda Adichie (novelist, feminist and all-around inspiration): 

We teach girls to shrink themselves
To make themselves smaller
We say to girls,
"You can have ambition
But not too much
You should aim to be successful
But not too successful
Otherwise you will threaten the man."
Because I am female
I am expected to aspire to marriage
I am expected to make my life choices
Always keeping in mind that
Marriage is the most important
Now marriage can be a source of
Joy and love and mutual support
But why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage
And we don't teach boys the same?
We raise girls to see each other as competitors
Not for jobs or for accomplishments
Which I think can be a good thing
But for the attention of men
We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings
In the way that boys are
Feminist: the person who believes in the social
Political, and economic equality of the sexes

Things people from the Midlands will understand

 The bog is life:

Summers in the Midlands often revolve around the bog and the Ga. The first sign of good weather means every member of the family is dragged out to cut, turn and foot the turf. This often lasts from morning to night with tae, hang shangwiches and bischuits being thrown out by the dozen.

 Being called a Bogger: 

Even if you are from the Midlands and have never had ventured onto the bog before (rare but it happens), you will be called a bogger by those who aren’t from the Midlands. You may live in the largest town in your county and have never stepped on a farm in your life but be prepared for bogger jokes when talking to anyone from Dublin, Cork, Limerick or any other large cities.

Being called a BIFFO:

It is nearly a given that being from the Midlands you will inevitably be called a BIFFO, even if you aren’t from Offaly. People just tend to throw Laois and Westmeath into consideration with the term.

Lads wearing checked shirts and baggy jeans to teen discos:

Cluiche discos are full to the brim with lads wearing checkered shirts, loose-fit jeans and statement Jack Jones belts. Smelling like an explosion at the Lynx factory is a must for any underage lad at a teen disco. This crew will start off with cider and progress to ale with age, still wearing the same checkered shirts and jeans.

Teen discos:

Ah, the humble teen disco. The Friday night once a month where a community centre in the backarse of nowhere is transformed into a hotspot for teens to try get the shift and take a million selfies. The teens may come and go, but cluiche discos will last forever.

The big trip up to Dublin to go shopping:

The trip up to Dublin is a well-prepared one. The day starts off at some ungodly hour in the morning with the father shouting ‘Are ye right?!’ before all the children are loaded into the car for the journey. After two hours in the ‘big shmoke’ the whole family are undoubtedly worn out and have to leave to beat the traffic.

Having fla’ accents:

If know someone from the Midlands, you have probably realised that t's and d's are dropped from words like there's no tomorrow and the 'th' may as well be forgotten about. For example, the popular brand of snack, Tayto, is pronounced as Tay-ho. 

No-one outside of Ireland knows of your county because you aren’t from Cork, Dublin or Galway:

There is no point of saying where you are from on foreign holidays unless you are from Cork, Dublin or Galway because chances are, they won’t have a clue what you’re talking about. The best thing is to shout ‘IRELAND’ and hope for a free pint out of it.

Some people inside of Ireland don’t know of your county:

This has happened before. See article on what it’s like being from Laois.

Top Five Beauty Bloggers to Follow

Hey guys! I, as much as the next girl, absolutely LOVE beauty vlogs! Whether it’s to finally learn how to smokey eye or to wallow in self-pity and envy over the collections of MAC on display, watching beauty vlogs are my favourite way to waste my life trolling the internet :D

So here it goes, this is my list of my five top beauty bloggers to follow!

1. Carli Bybel (the Beauty Bybel):

   

   Property of: Carli Bybel

I’m not sure how I stumbled across Carli Bybel but I am SO thrilled that I did. Besides the fact that she is gorgeous and I want to have her life, my appreciation for Carli’s posts is real. This is a beauty blogger that has made her way as a freelance artist and who always gives the viewers what they ask for. A must-view.

Copyright: Pinterest

2. Lauren Curtis:

This Aussie girl will give you every look you want- from casual to going out on the town or to a first date.  She also gives advice on fashion, hair, first impressions and life in general! And besides, who doesn’t love to listen to an Aussie accent?

3. Suzanne Jackson (SoSueMe):

   

   Property of: The Irish Mirror

Keeping it Irish here with my third choice! Suzanne Jackson is one of the ultimate beauty icons in Ireland and it’s easy to see why! With her forever flawless makeup and amazingly accessible fashion items (like from Dunne Stores!), Sue is onto a winner here. Besides, in the midst of bloggers telling us about makeup only available in the US, it is so refreshing to know that whatever Sue wears can be got over here... Score!

Property of: Liz Meghan

4. Liz Meghan (iheartmakeup92):

Liz is definitely a MUA icon in my eyes. Not one to shy away from the fact that she has acne, Liz has again and again given so many helpful tips and advice on how she deals with it and she looks AMAZING even still! I’ve grown up with acne and feel very unconfident about my skin and even when I feel my spots can’t get any worse Liz is only a click away and provides a glimmer of home that way.

5. Chloe Boucher:

   

   Property of: http://chloeboucher.weebly.com/

Another Irish beauty, this Dublin girl is relatively new to the vlogging scene and is already taking it by storm! With her flawless skin and trademark brown smokey eye, Chloe is set to make it big in years to come.

Well that’s all from me! If you have any comments or questions, or anyone you feel should be added to the list, don’t hesitate in letting me know!

Until next time,

lots of love,

Siun X